I'm getting to be a short timer here in the corps and have been re-evaluating my life such as it is and will soon become. I look forward with an elated sense of anticipation for the future, but at the same time I am sad for all the friendships I feel have slipped away from me since I have been here.
I have learned that when you are away from everything you know that the most important thing to have in your life are connections. Family and friends take on a whole new meaning when you are in the Peace Corps or serving in the military or just away from what is familiar and solid in your life.
Of all the things I could ever wish for in my lifetime is that I never want to be forgotten. When has the value of friendships and family gone the way of the latest fad? I used to think friends and family were forever but it's simply not true.
Making a conscience choice to keep the lines of communication open is proof that no matter where you are in the universe, those who love and care about you will always keep the lines open. Those who choose to let go of this fragile thread will one day regret the loss of something meaningful.
I have found a way to make friends and family wherever I go, and for this gift I am thankful. Without it I would be one lonely individual.
Oh Jo,
ReplyDeleteI hope you aren't feeling too sad. People can get so caught up in the lives that are in front of them. It doesn't mean they don't love you. Also some people aren't really good on the computer. Me, I get on the computer fairly often so I am good at long distance friendships. Sometimes I am not so good a friend in regular day to day present life because I get so busy that I don't have a lot of extra time.
My guess is you will come back and pick right up with some folks and others will stay by the wayside.
Never doubt that you are great and what you are doing takes a tremendous amount of courage. ESPECIALLY for us older types! Transitions are tough and although you know RI, it will be an adjustment to be home again I am sure.
xoxom